Most people feel jittery or panicked when they decide to go on a date. Most of them end up turning their date into a complete flop. Dating can be an absolute nightmare for everyone involved. So what is it that needs to be done to make your date a pleasant one? Well, I’m going to tell ya.
Every time I talk to a guy who tells me about his dating experience, I realize he’s making the exact same mistakes most guys do. The same mistakes that kill his chances of successfully dating sexy women.
Whether you have been dating for years, getting back in the game, or just starting out, you could always use a bit of dating advice and when it comes to recognizing the repeat mistakes most guys make, you’re gonna need all the advice you can get.
1) Pay attention and listen
Most guys try to impress women by talking non-stop through their date. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she will begin to wonder why you’re not slobbering all over her. She’ll want to discover more about you herself… now you’re a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one.
2) Ask questions
Come up with a list of questions before you even leave the house, i.e., How did you get into that line of work? Where did you go to school? Have you seen the new Tom Cruise movie? And so on. If a woman tells you about her weekend at the yoga center, and you know absolutely nothing about yoga, just ask her what she likes about it, how she got into it, etc.
3) Compliment the other person
Show sincere appreciation, so find something you like and mention it. You may be freaked out by the idea of complimenting a woman on her soulful eyes, so mention her watch, dress, hairstyle, or even her shoes. No need to go overboard: "Nice shoes," will do it.
4) Be yourself
Exaggerating or boasting your credentials, successes, etc. will only make the woman lose interest. Make her feel at home so that she does not feel pressured to impress or lie to you. Sincerity is the best policy. Nobody feels more comfortable around people who are genuine and sincere.
5) Give your date the royal treatment
Buy her some flowers, buy her dinner and make her feel special. Show her that you value her company. Women love to be showered with attention and pampered by her man. For the subsequent date, cook up a meal at home and spend the evening watching movies or some other activity such as a board game. The meal most likely will be better than a restaurant.
Enjoy dating while you can and live life to the fullest. You’ll attract women who are looking for someone special for a change.