Do you define yourself by the relationship you’re in?

I’ve encountered some people recently, who are several years younger them me – who, from a distance, seem to define themselves by the relationship they are in.  I look at those people and my heart breaks.  I used to be one of them.  I know how much it hurts, how emotionally volatile it can me and how much damage it can do physically. When I was living with, and engaged to the first man I […] Read the Full Article »